CAPITAL REGION — A coalition of community agencies,
churches and the Schenectady City School District is working
with two national experts to develop a strategy to prevent
further suicides among students, officials said at a forum
Thursday night.
Joe Gallagher of
Northeast Parent and Child Society said the coalition came
together Monday following the weekend suicide of a second
student in 10 days and the third suicide since November in the
Schenectady district.
“We will lay the
groundwork for how we will proceed and we will pursue a
strategy to prevent the untimely deaths of children. We want
to make them feel safe and protected,” Gallagher said.
The state Office of
Mental Health has brought in two national experts to assess
the suicide patterns, to review rumors related to the suicides
and to prepare a plan of response, Gallagher said. “The
professionals are trying to sort out what happened and to get
to the root of what happened,” he said. They were not
identified.
Dr. Kevin Karpowicz,
leading pediatrician at the Ellis Pediatric Health Center,
called the suicides a “cluster,” with one triggering the next.
“Clusters do happen. The trigger is the other person.”
Karpowicz said he
would like to see the creation of a permanent community
response team. The team would go into action immediately after
a suicide. “That is how you stop a cluster,” he said.
One of the forum’s
panelists said he spoke with approximately 35 Schenectady High
School students earlier Thursday. Seventy-percent said they
knew someone who was thinking of suicide or felt like
committing suicide, and 100 percent said they did not know
where to go for help.
The panelist said
many of the students mentioned they were overwhelmed by living
in poverty, coming from single-family homes, dealing with teen
pregnancy and having sexually transmitted diseases.
Karpowicz said these
factors can trigger suicide but the key factor is an
overwhelming sadness.
Additional forums are
planned next week for students of Schenectady High School and
for parents and community members.
Thursday night’s
forum drew approximately 100 people to the high school’s Black
Box Theater, which holds 270.
Gallagher said the
forum was a chance for people to “come together as a community
and talk about what we as a community can do for ourselves and
our children.” He said the deaths have stunned and scared the
community, and “now it’s time to talk.”
A number of people
did talk, and most relayed the same message: “Talk to and
listen to your children.”
The Rev. Clarence
Samuel Johns, of the Refreshing Spring Church of God in
Schenectady, agrees. He officiated at the funeral of the girl
who killed herself in November. The service drew 900 children,
he said.
“One of the things is
to talk about it,” Johns said. “They found out afterwards
there were all kinds of signs, but they didn’t understand them
or see them.”
Ballston spa workshop
Meanwhile in Ballston
Spa, two psychologists spoke to about 35 people at a workshop
on suicide prevention sponsored by The Prevention Council of
Saratoga Springs.
Psychologists
Lawrence Silverman and Rich DeMartino have each counseled
hundreds of teenagers over the past 30 years, but they haven’t
come up with a formula for predicting suicide.
Silverman works in
the Shenendehowa School District and DeMartino in the Saratoga
Springs City School District.
Silverman said he
started his school counseling career in 1979 and, shortly
after he started, there were two unrelated teen suicides
within 24 hours.
One was a boy who was
a star athlete getting good grades and the other was a girl
who had recently quit after a troubled school career.
“I don’t think there
was anyone in the high school who didn’t know one or the other
of these young people,” he said.
Before beginning
their program, Silverman and DeMartino asked participants to
tell who they were and what they think of when they hear the
word suicide.
Around the table,
counseling service professionals, school administrators,
teachers and concerned parents said they were frightened,
confused and desperate for information. Most of the
participants said they knew of at least one person in their
personal or professional lives who had committed suicide.
One man said he had
two friends who had killed themselves in unrelated incidents.
“One guy was always
depressed and down and the other was what you would call a
really happy-go-lucky guy,” he said. “I think we all felt more
guilty about the seemingly happy guy because it was so
unexpected.”
Several school
counselors said they get nervous when children talk about
thoughts of suicide. “I feel panicked,” one woman said. “I
want to do something, but I’m unsure.”
Silverman said when
anyone talks about suicide, it’s a call to action for those
around them.
That action includes
talking with parents, mental health professionals and doctors.
“In my experience,
kids are conflicted when they say they’re thinking about
killing themselves. If you take action, it can be a comfort
for the kid.”
DeMartino said
opening the topic up for discussion can start to defuse the
situation. “It’s difficult to work with someone who talks
about it all the time, but by saying you are worried and that
you want to help, it can make a difference.”
Silverman said he
understands Schenectady City School District officials’
reluctance to publicize three recent student suicides and
three attempted suicides over the past four months.
“There is a fear that
if you talk about it, you’re going to give someone the idea.
That’s not likely to be the case,” he said. “In my experience,
if I ask a teenager if they’re thinking about hurting
themselves, I get pretty accurate information.”
DeMartino encouraged
participants to access the American Foundation for Suicide
Prevention Web site,
www.afsp.org, for details on the subject and available
services.
According to
statistics on the Web site, males are three times more likely
to commit suicide than females and the highest rates are among
those who are 45 to 54 years old or over the age of 75.
“White men over the
age of 75 are the most at risk,” Silverman said.
When young people
kill themselves, he said, adults feel a sense of
responsibility, shock and grief that the life was cut short.
“Is it possible to
predict someone will commit suicide? We shouldn’t attempt to
predict. If someone talks about it, take action,” he said.